试试这个
$.ajax({ type:'POST', url:'delete.php', data:{del_id:del_id}, success: function(data){ if(data=="YES"){ $ele.fadeOut().remove(); }else{ alert("can't delete the row") } } })})并且也改变
$music_number = "POST['del_id']";
至
$music_number = $_POST['del_id'];



