create table friendship(user bigint, friend bigint,primary key(user, friend),key(friend, user),constraint `fk_user` foreign key (user) references user(id),constraint `fk_friend` foreign key (friend) references user(id));
当用户1向用户2发送友谊请求时,
insert into friendship (user, friend) values (1,2);
如果用户2拒绝该请求,
delete from friendship where user = 1 and friend = 2;
如果用户2接受:
insert into friendship (user, friend) values (2,1);
然后,可以通过这种方式找到友谊:
select f1.* from friendship f1inner join friendship f2 on f1.user = f2.friend and f1.friend = f2.user;
您可以使用最后一个查询进行查看,这将帮助您查询用户的朋友,甚至朋友的朋友。



