题文
The differences between men and women's friendshipsBetty and Harold have been married for years. But one thing still puzzles (困扰) old Harold. How is it that he can leave Betty and her friend Joan sitting on the sofa, talking, go out to a ballgame, come back three and a half hours later, and they're still sitting on the sofa and talking?
What old Harold cannot understand or explain is the fact that women have so much to share.
Betty shrugs. Talk? We're friends.
Researching this matter called friendship, psychologist Lillian Rubin spent two years interviewing more than two hundred women and men. the results were completely clear: women have more friendships than men. Rubin's study shows that for emotional support a married woman is more likely to turn to a female friend.
"In general," writes Rubin in her new book, "women's friendships with each other lie on shared emotions and support, but men's relationships are marked by shared activities.”
“ Men keep their innermost(内心深处的) feelings to themselves. " Rubin writes, " Whereas(然而) a woman's closest female friend might be the first to tell her to leave a failing marriage. However, a man by society doesn’t complain about his marriage trouble. it wasn't unusual to hear a man say he didn't know his friend's marriage was in serious trouble until he appeared one night asking if he could sleep on the sofa. "
小题1:What old Harold cannot understand or explain is the fact that ________.A．he is treated as an outsider rather than a husbandB．women have so much to share.C．women show little interest in ballgamesD．he find his wife difficult to talk to小题2:Rubin's study shows that for emotional support a married woman is more likely to turn to _________.A．a male friendB．a female friendC．her parentsD．her husband小题3:What do women's friendships with each other lie on in general?A．shared emotionsB．supportC．shared activitiesD．shared emotions and support小题4:According to the last paragraph, which type of behavior is NOT expected of a man by society?A．Ending his marriage without good reason.B．Spending too much time with his friends.C．complaining about his marriage trouble.D．going out to ballgames too often..小题5:What is the article about? ________.A．happy and successful marriagesB．friendships of men and womenC．emotional problems in marriageD．interactions between men and women 题型：未知难度：其他题型
答案
小题1:B
小题2:B
小题3:D
小题4:C
小题5:B
解析
小题1:细节题：从文章第二段的句子：What old Harold cannot understand or explain is the fact that women have so much to share.可知答案是B
小题2:细节题：从第四段的句子：Rubin's study shows that for emotional support a married woman is more likely to turn to a female friend.可知答案是B
小题3:细节题：从第五段的句子：women's friendships with each other lie on shared emotions and support,可知D正确。
小题4:细节题:从最后一段的句子;However, a man by society doesn’t complain about his marriage trouble说明C正确
小题5:主旨题，文章的标题：The differences between men and women's friendships告诉我们B项是主旨。
点评：文章介绍男女对友谊的不同态度，抓每一段的中心思想，找出男女的不同观点，再进行比较分析。
考点
据考高分专家说，试题“The differences betw.....”主要考查你对 [人生感悟类阅读 ]考点的理解。人生感悟类阅读
人生感悟类阅读的概念：
生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。
生活感悟类阅读解题指导：
一、文章特点：
生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。有时故事的结尾会有一句“点睛之笔”，点出全文的中心思想，就像《伊索寓言》里的寓言一样。还可能是夹叙夹议的哲理散文或生活随笔。散文随笔通常会阐述一种朴素易懂，耳熟能详的人生道理或宝贵品质。文章的结构和议论文类似，一般是总分总或总分结构。每段首句或尾句为主题句（论点），其它句子围绕主题展开论述（论据），论证方法多种多样，或举例，或引用名言，或正反对照等。
二、解题技巧：
针对生活感悟类文章的特点，做这类文章的完形填空时，要特别注意以下几点：
1、重点理解全文的首句。如果是记叙文，找出when，where，who，what等基本要素。如果是散文随笔，充分理解文章的中心句—全文的主题。
2、阅读全文的结尾段或结尾句，有助于理解文章所阐述或蕴含的哲理、感悟或忠告等。
3、调动自己的背景知识和情感。这类文章不会讲大道理也不会涉及到一些很专业的知识技术领域，而是谈一些小事和简单的道理，所以如果读者能和作者产生感情上的共鸣，读者会更好地把握作者的意图态度，从而提高做题的准确度。因此，考生在平时要做一个有心人，即用心去感悟生活中发生的小事，思考人生的一些基本道理，多阅读一些短小精悍的美文，多写写自己的心情故事和对生活学习的感悟。只有平时多用心，做题时才能调动自己的背景知识和情感。
