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CommunicationPrinciples
Howyouseeyourselfcanmakeagreatd ifferenceinhowyoucommunicate.“Everyindividualexistsinacontinuallychangingworldofexperienceofwhichhe（orshe）isthecenter”.Manycommunicationscholarsandsocialscientistsbelievethatpeopleareproductsofhowotherstr eatthemandofthemessagesotherssendthem.Buteverydayweexperiencethecentr alityofourselvesincommunication.Astudent.forinstance，maydescribeaconflictwithateacherasunfairtr eatment：“Iknowmyteacherdoesn’tlikethefactthatIdon’tagreewithhisopinions.andthat’swhyhegavemesuchapoorgradeinthatclass.”Theteachermightsaytheopposite.Eachpersonmaybelievethatheiscorrectandthattheotherperson’sviewiswrong.
Theconceptofserforiginatesincommunication.Throughverbalandnonverbalsymbols,achildlearnstoacceptr olesinresponsetotheexpectationsofothers.Youestablishself-image。Thesortofpersonyoubelieveyouare，byhowothersthinkofyou.Positive，negative，andneutr almessagesthatyoureceivefromothersallplayaroleindeterminingwhoyouare.Communicationitselfisprobablybestunderstoodasadialogueprocess.Ourunderstandingofcommunicationcomesfromourinteractionswithotherpeople.Inamoreobviousway.communicationinvolvesothersinthesensethatacompetentcommunicatorconsiderswhattheotherpersonneedsandexpectswhenselectingmessagestoshare.So，thecommunicationbeginswiththeself，asdefinedlargelybyothers，andinvolvesothers，asdefinedlargelybytheself.
CommunicationOccursalmosteveryminuteofyourlife.Ifyouarenotcommunicatingwithyourself（thinking，planning，reactingtotheworldaroundyou），youareobservingothersanddrawinginferencesfromtheirbehavior.Eveniftheotherpersondidnotintendamessageforyou.yougatherobservationsanddrawspecificconclusions.Apersonyawnsandyoubelievethatpersonisboredwithyourmessage.Asecondpersonlooksawayfromyouandyouconcludethatpersonisnotlisteningtoyou.Athirdpersonsmiles（perhapsbecauseofamemoryofajokeheheardrecently）andyoubelievethatheisattr actedtoyou.Wearecontinuallypickingupmeaningsfromothers’behaviorsandweareconstantlyprovidingbehaviorsthathavecommunicativevalueforthem.
Moreoftenthannot，youmayhavehurtsomeoneaccidentallyandyoumayhavetr iedtoexplainthatyoudidnotmeanthat.Youmayhavetoldtheotherpersonthatyouweresorryforyourstatement.Youmayhavemadeajokeoutofyourrudestatement.Nonetheless，yourcommentr emainsbothinthemindoftheotherpersonandinyourownmind.Youcannotgobackintimeanderaseyourmessagestoothers.Communicationcannotbereversed（倒退），norcanitberepeated.Whenyoutr iedtore—createtheatmosphere，theconversation，andthesetting，nothingseemedright.Yoursecondexperiencewithasimilarsettingandpersonmadefardifferentr esults.
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Communicationbeginswiththeself
●Peoplearesomewhatproductsofothers’tr eatmentandmessages.
●wearealways（71）▲incommunicationwithothers.
Communication（72）▲others
●Experiencesofothershelpchildrenlearntoacceptr oles.
●Messagesfromothershelpyou（73）▲whoyouare.
●Needsand（74）▲ofothersshouldbeconsidered.
Communication（75）▲everywhere
●Wearecommunicatingwithourselvesbythinking，planningandreactingtotheoutsideworld.
●Wearealways（76）▲otherpeoplebyobservingeveniftheydonotintendanymessageforyou.
●Weareconstantlycollectingmeaningsfromothers’（77）▲.
●Weareconstantly（78）▲meaningsbywhatwedo.
Communication
cannotbereversednorrepeated
●Youmayexplainwhatyouhavedone，butyoucannot（79）▲whatr emainsintheotherperson’smind.
●Yonmayredotheconversation，butyou（80）▲achievethesameresults.
正确答案：71.self-centr ed／subjective 76.reading／understanding/knowing
72.involves 77.behaviors／acts／action（s）／activities
73.determine／define／know／understand 78.conveying／expressing
74.expectations／hopes／desires／wishes 79.erase／remove／delete/change
75.occurs／happens／exists／arises 80.can’t／cannot
