i don't see how i can help being the cause of much misery to

i don't see how i can help being the cause of much misery to you all your life.不知道其中can help being 我查了好多字典,都找不到,怎么翻译句子呢to 回答者：yearnpast :感觉能通，可是实际翻译的意思是底楼的，to 底楼兄弟，你怎么理解can help being的，