⑴those who can lose shall gain,those who wish gain shall los

（1）those who can lose shall gain, those who wish gain shall lose。 输得起,才能赢；只想赢,就会输。 （2）other people's harvest are always the best harvest but one's own children are the best children 别人的成就/收获怎么看都比自己的好,而自己的孩子怎么看都比别人的孩子好。（3）Belief, then , is the great guide of human life。信仰是人生最伟大的向导。