learn to say no中学英语作文

作文：For others, people will always show the emotional reaction。 If you said to make people happy, even immediately added some make people angry words, the other can also continue to listen to happy expression。 Using this method, the object is not influenced by the likes of refuse。In the face of the object doesn't like, to knock him by surprise, to reject the other。 If the lack of opportunities, refer to the manufacturing opportunity, first to Fangxing, high spirits, and then take advantage of each other's lack of mental preparation, face still grinning, find an excuse to quit, to refuse to。Said the first point and reject irrelevant if rejected, this for the first suppression Yang way, can give a person the heart a buffer and bedding, don't let to very direct, stiff。In order to deal with the interpersonal relationship between us, we should learn to say no, learn to euphemism refused to others翻译： 对于他人的话,人们总是会表现出情感反应。如果先说让人高兴的话,即使马上接着说些使人生气的话,对方也能以欣然的表情继续听。利用这种方法,可以拒绝不受喜欢的对象。面对不喜欢的对象,要出其不意地敲他一下,以便拒绝对方。若缺乏机会,不妨参照上例,制造机会,先使对方兴高采烈,然后趁对方缺乏心理准备,脸上仍在笑嘻嘻时,找到借口及时退出,达到拒绝的目的。拒绝之前先说点与拒绝无关的话,这种欲抑先扬的方式,可以给人心里一个缓冲和铺垫,不至于让拒绝进行得很直接、僵硬。为了处理好我们的人际关系,我们应该学会说不,学会委婉拒绝他人