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I will be married in October this year。”when I announced this news to my sisters,they said:"oh,really?Do you afraid marriage is the tomb of love?"Oh my god,of course,I feel so bad to hear that。They don't give me blessings but intimidation?Are they my sisters?I confused for a period of time about this。and have strong confidence of my marriage。Time past,after two years marriage life,i feel that many unhappy things arround us ,may be is not so big things,but is enough to make me think about the questions"Do you afraid marriage is the tomb of love?"Now,I can give everyone the answer。Yes,marriage is really the tomb of love,but it just like the story of"Besieged City"。People in the city want to go outside。People outside want to go into the city。It is really very helplessness。these days,I feel very unhappy,but no one can help me ,I just don't want to back home,but。。。I want to see my baby。what can i do ,oh god,really trouble。