跪求一篇在逆境中收获成长的英文文章（最好是演讲稿）或者一个在逆境中成长的英文故事（短）

Depending on yoursrlf Growing up is not always easy。When we face difficulities,a spirit of depending on yourself is more useful than crying for help。That's what Hong Zhanhui's story of growing from boy to man with family hardship tells us Hong was born is 1982 in a poor family in Xihua County(县),Henan Province。When he was only 11,his father became badiy ill and one day he came back with an unwanted baby girl A year later。Hong's mother left home。She on longer wanted to live such a poor life and face ger sick husband。So everything hard fell onto the young boy's shoulders:to take care of his father and the sister Chenchen,and to go on to study Although his life was hard,Hong diodn't go away from his father and sister。He worked in part-time jobs to feed his family。He climbed tall trees to get birds' eggs for his sister。He walked two hours at weekends to the market to buy different things to sell around his school。A few years later,he studied at a college。To take care of Chenchen,he worked hard to rent(租)a room near his college for her,and send her to school。 After Hong's story went public,he became a hero in people's eyes。But Hong refused offers from others。He said he felt encouraded by king offers,but he could depend on his own work Through his hard life ,he has grown up from boy to man。依靠你自己 成长总不是那么容易的。当我们面临困难的时候,拥有依靠自己的精神比苦寻帮助要有用得多。那就是洪战辉肩负着家庭的重担,从一个男孩成长为一个男子汉的故事所告诉我们的道理。 洪战辉1982年出生于河南省西华县的一个贫困家庭里。当他只有11岁的时候,他的父亲患了重病。有一天,他的父亲捡回一个素不相识的女婴。一年之后,洪战辉的母亲离家出走了,她不想生活在如此贫困的一个家庭里,面对着疾病缠身的丈夫。于是,所有困难都落在这个年少的男孩身上：照顾父亲和妹妹趁趁,还要继续学业。 虽然生活艰难,洪战辉并未将父亲和妹妹抛下不管。他找了一份兼职工作来供养家庭,爬到树上去为妹妹掏鸟蛋,利用周末步行两个小时到市场上购买各种商品到学校周围卖钱。几年之后,他考上了大学,为了照顾趁趁,他努力打工挣钱,在学校旁边为妹妹租了一间房子并送她上学。当洪战辉的事迹流传开以后,他成了人们心目中的英雄。但是洪战辉拒绝了他人的捐助。他说,他被人们的捐助所感动,但是他可以依靠自己的力量。 虽然生活很艰难,洪战辉还是从一个男孩成长为了一个男子汉。