用英语翻译:一些人叫他们的家人和朋友捐钱给慈善机构而不是给他们买礼物(用到ask sb to… rather than)

你倒不如把你想要表达以上的意思打成短篇,然后帮你翻译。毕竟你了解情况。
Some people ask their families and friends to give money to charity rather than buy them gifts。