题文
A relationship is defined as a state of connectedness between people. Although in today’s society with its crazy rhythm of everyday life, when people tend to live in thickly populated cities, spending most of their time in the office and hardly knowing their neighbor’s name, we still find ourselves in some kinds of relationships-with friends, family, or colleagues.Family relationships are the first relationships people enter. Parents and relatives influence our emotional development by creating a model that we are sometimes bound to follow all our lives, often subconsciously （潜意识地）. In day-care, at school, then in the office we spend a lot of time among fellow students and co-workers. We learn to keep business relationships, to work in a team environment, then form smaller groups of like-minded people and finally select some of them as our friends.
What is a true friendship? How does it start? Are we destined to become friends with certain people or can we actually plan whom to be friends with？
“Everybody‘s friend is nobody’s.” said Arthur Schopenhauer. Unlike a companionship based on belonging to the same team or group, friendship is a very personal and selective type of relationship. It calls for trust, sincerity, and emotional bonds.
Sociologists believe that most people are looking for similarities in views, social status, and interests when choosing friends. No wonder that our friends are often people of the same age, sex, and education. Another important factor is joint activity and solidarity. This is the reason why many of us befriend our colleagues and other people who work in the same field.
Most people would agree that a friend is someone who always listens and understands. Understanding in this context implies a lot of meanings-compassion, sympathy, and emotional closeness. It’s a process in which your friend reads your emotional state, shares your feelings, identifies himself or herself with you.
小题1:What is the best title of this passage？_______A．Family and RelationshipsB．How to Make Friends with ColleaguesC．What is a True FriendshipD．People and Relationship小题2:According to the passage, which of the following affects us most when choosing friends？A．Kindergarten.B．Family.C．School.D．Office.小题3: Why are our friends usually of the same age，sex，and education？A．Because they are clever and well-behaved.B．Because most of us are looking for similarities in views，social status, and interests when choosing friends.C．Because they help us with our work and share our happiness and sorrow.D．Because they cooperate with us well.小题4:Which of the following statements is NOT true？A．A companionship is based on belonging to the same team or group.B．Friendship needs trust, sincerity, and emotional bonds.C．Relationships are friendships between people.D．Understanding is a process in which the friend reads our emotional state, shares our feelings, identifies himself / herself with us. 题型：未知难度：其他题型
答案
小题1:D
小题2:B
小题3:B
小题4:C
解析
文章介绍人与人之间和家人的、朋友的，还有和同事的关系，阐述家庭关系的重要性，人们如何建立与朋友，同事的关系。
小题1:主旨题：从第一段的句子、A relationship is defined as a state of connectedness between people. 可知这篇文章讲的是人和人际关系，选D
小题2:细节题：从第二段的句子：Parents and relatives influence our emotional development by creating a model that we are sometimes bound to follow all our lives, often subconsciously （潜意识地）. 可知在选朋友的时候，家庭起着重要的作用，选B
小题3:细节题：从第五段的句子：Sociologists believe that most people are looking for similarities in views, social status, and interests when choosing friends. No wonder that our friends are often people of the same age, sex, and education. 可知人们在寻找同样观点，社会地位和兴趣的人，选B
小题4:细节题：从第一段的句子：we still find ourselves in some kinds of relationships-with friends, family, or colleagues.可知人们的关系有家人的朋友的，还有和同事的关系，不仅仅是朋友间的关系。选C
考点
据考高分专家说，试题“A relationship is de.....”主要考查你对 [日常生活类阅读 ]考点的理解。日常生活类阅读
日常生活类阅读的概念：
日常生活这一话题主要涉及人们衣食住行等方面的活动。这一话题的选材主要针对人们日常的工作，生活以及学习情况。做这一类题时，最主要的是要把握好人物的活动内容，时间和地点。
日常生活类阅读题答题技巧：
【题型说明】
该类文章内容涉及到人们的言谈举止、生活习惯、饮食起居、服饰仪表、恋爱婚姻、消遣娱乐、节日起源、家庭生活等。文章篇幅短小，追根溯源，探索各项风俗的历史渊源，内容有趣。命题也以送分题为主，如事实细节题、语义转换题、词义猜测题和简单推理判断题等。虽然这类文章读起来感觉轻松，试题做起来比较顺手，但绝不能掉以轻心。因为稍不留神，就会丢分。
【备考提醒】
为了保证较高准确率，建议同学们做好以下几点：
1、保持正常的考试心态。笔者在教学中发现，越是容易的试题，同学们越是容易失分。为什么呢？因为在这种情况下，同学们极易产生麻痹思想，认为题目好做，就不引起高度重视，于是思维不发散、不周密。而命题人就是利用同学们的这一弱点，设计陷阱题。所以，无论试题难易与否，我们都要保持正常的考试心态。试题容易，不欣喜；试题难，不悲观。
2、根据前面讲到的方法，认认真真、细细心心做好事实细节题。
3、做好语义转换题。这类题是根据英语中一词多义和某些词语在文中能表达一定的修辞意义的原则而设计的。要求同学们解释某生词的含义，确定多义词或短语在文中的意思，确认文中的某个代词所指代的对象，或者对英语中特有的表达、格言、谚语进行解释。这种题要求同学们一定要根据上下文猜测词义或理解句子，切不可望文生义。
4、做好简单推理判断题。简单推理判断题要以表面文字为前提，以具体事实为依据进行推理，做出判断。这种推理方式比较直接，只要弄清事实，即可结合常识推断出合理的结论。
