题文
When you meet someone for the first time, you will form an impression in your mind of that person in the first moment. Your reactions to other people, however, are really just barometers (晴雨表) for how you perceive(理解) yourself. Your reactions to others say more about you than they do about others. You cannot really love or hate something about another unless it reflects something you love or hate yourself. We are usually drawn to those who are most like us and tend to dislike those who display those aspects of ourselves that we dislike.Therefore, you can allow others to be the mirror to illuminate (阐明;照亮) more clearly your own feelings of self-worth. Conversely, you can view the people you judge negatively as mirrors to show you what you are not accepting about yourself.
To survive together peacefully with others, you will need to learn tolerance. A big challenge is to shift your perspective from judgment of others to a lifelong exploration of yourself. Your task is to assess all the decisions, judgments you make onto others and to begin to view them as clues to how you can heal yourself and become whole.
Several days ago I had a business lunch with a man who displayed objectionable table manners. My first reaction was to judge him as rude and his table manners as annoying. When I noticed that I was judging him, I stopped and asked myself what I was feeling. I discovered that I was embarrassed to be seen with someone who was chewing with his mouth open and loudly blowing his nose. I was astonished to find how much I cared about how the other people in the restaurant perceived me.
Remember that your judgment of someone will not serve as a protective shield against you becoming like him. Just because I judge my lunch partner as rude does not prevent me from ever looking or acting like him. In the same way, extending tolerance to him would not cause me to suddenly begin chewing my food with my mouth open.
When you approach life in this manner, those with whom you have the greatest dissatisfactions as well as those you admire and love can be seen as mirrors, guiding you to discover parts of yourself that you reject and to embrace your greatest quality.
小题1:The purpose of the author writing this passage is to advise people to _______.A．avoid inappropriate mannersB．learn tolerance towards othersC．pay attention to others’ needs and feelings D．judge others favorably in any case小题2:The underlined word “objectionable” in Paragraph 4 has the closest meaning to __________.A．discouragingB．disappointingC．disgustingD．disturbing小题3:According to the passage, the following statements are all true except ______.A．You can’t really love or hate others if they are similar to you.B．We are easily attracted by someone who is similar to us.C．Our first judgment of a person mostly comes from our personal opinion.D．The moment we see a stranger, our mind forms an impression of that person.小题4:It can be implied from the text that __________.A．the writer’s first reaction to the man was to judge him as offensiveB．we will need to learn tolerance to co-exist with othersC．we shouldn’t focus on judging others but should constantly reflect on our ownD．the writer didn’t care about other people’s view of him 题型：未知难度：其他题型
答案
小题1:B
小题2:C
小题3:A
小题4:C
解析
本文讲述了我们不喜欢的人的身上有很多我们不喜欢我们自己的地方。这些我们喜欢还是不喜欢的地方都反应出我们自己的性格的很多方面，我们不要总是去判断别人，而是要反思我们自己。
小题1:B 主旨大意题。本文讲述了我们不喜欢的人的身上有很多我们不喜欢我们自己的地方。根据文章倒数第二段In the same way, extending tolerance to him would not cause me to suddenly begin chewing my food with my mouth open.以及文章最后一句guiding you to discover parts of yourself that you reject and to embrace your greatest quality.都告诉我们要学会容忍和接纳。故B正确。
小题2:C 推理题。根据第三段1,2行Several days ago I had a business lunch with a man who displayed objectionable table manners. My first reaction was to judge him as rude and his table manners as annoying.可知我认为他是一个在餐桌上没有礼貌的人，他的餐桌礼仪是让人厌恶的，和前面后面的annoying.是近义词。故C正确。
小题3:A 推理题。根据文章第一段最后2行We are usually drawn to those who are most like us and tend to dislike those who display those aspects of ourselves that we dislike.说明我们喜欢那些和我们有很多相似之处的人，不喜欢那些和我们有很多的差异的人。故A项的说法是错误的。
小题4:C 推断题。根据倒数第二段前3行Remember that your judgment of someone will not serve as a protective shield against you becoming like him. Just because I judge my lunch partner as rude does not prevent me from ever looking or acting like him.可知我们不要总是去判断别人，而是要反思我们自己。因为在我们不喜欢的人的身上有很多我们的所不喜欢的自己的性格的反应。故C正确。
点评：本文讲述了我们不喜欢的人的身上有很多我们不喜欢我们自己的地方。这些我们喜欢还是不喜欢的地方都反应出我们自己的性格的很多方面，我们不要总是去判断别人，而是要反思我们自己。本文要求考生在阅读理解整体语篇的基础上，把握文章的真正内涵。要吃透文章的字面意思，从字里行间捕捉有用的提示和线索，这是推理的前提和基础;要对文字的表面信息进行挖掘加工，由表入里，由浅入深，从具体到抽象，从非凡到一般，通过分析、综合、判定等，进行深层处理，符合逻辑地推理。不能就是论事，断章取义，以偏概全。要忠实于原文，以文章提供的事实和线索为依据。
考点
据考高分专家说，试题“When you meet someon.....”主要考查你对 [人生感悟类阅读 ]考点的理解。人生感悟类阅读
人生感悟类阅读的概念：
生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。
生活感悟类阅读解题指导：
一、文章特点：
生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。有时故事的结尾会有一句“点睛之笔”，点出全文的中心思想，就像《伊索寓言》里的寓言一样。还可能是夹叙夹议的哲理散文或生活随笔。散文随笔通常会阐述一种朴素易懂，耳熟能详的人生道理或宝贵品质。文章的结构和议论文类似，一般是总分总或总分结构。每段首句或尾句为主题句（论点），其它句子围绕主题展开论述（论据），论证方法多种多样，或举例，或引用名言，或正反对照等。
二、解题技巧：
针对生活感悟类文章的特点，做这类文章的完形填空时，要特别注意以下几点：
1、重点理解全文的首句。如果是记叙文，找出when，where，who，what等基本要素。如果是散文随笔，充分理解文章的中心句—全文的主题。
2、阅读全文的结尾段或结尾句，有助于理解文章所阐述或蕴含的哲理、感悟或忠告等。
3、调动自己的背景知识和情感。这类文章不会讲大道理也不会涉及到一些很专业的知识技术领域，而是谈一些小事和简单的道理，所以如果读者能和作者产生感情上的共鸣，读者会更好地把握作者的意图态度，从而提高做题的准确度。因此，考生在平时要做一个有心人，即用心去感悟生活中发生的小事，思考人生的一些基本道理，多阅读一些短小精悍的美文，多写写自己的心情故事和对生活学习的感悟。只有平时多用心，做题时才能调动自己的背景知识和情感。
