题文
We can make mistakes at any age. Some mistakes we make are about money. But most mistakes are about people. “Did Jerry really care when I broke up(分开) with Helen?” “When I got that great job, did Jim, as a friend, really feel good about it?” “And was Paul friendly just because I had a car?” When we look back, these thoughts can make us feel bad. But when we look back, it is too late.Why do we go wrong with our friends, or our enemies? Sometimes what people say hides their real meanings. And if we do not really listen, we miss the feeling behind the words. When someone tells you, “You’re a lucky dog!” Is he really on your side? If he says, “You’re a lucky guy!” That is being friendly. But “a lucky dog”? There is a bit of envy (嫉妒) in those words. What he may be saying is that he does not think you deserve (应得) your luck.
“Just think of all the things you have to be thankful for” is another phrase（短语） that says one thing and means another. It could mean that the speaker is trying to get you to see your problem. But this phrase contains the thought that your problem is not at all important.
How can you tell the real meaning behind someone’s words? One way is to take a good look at the person talking. Do his words fit the way he looks? Is what he says shown by the tone of voice? The look in his eyes? Stop and think. The minute you spend thinking about the real meaning of what people say to you may save your another mistake.
小题1:When the writer thinks of some of the things that happened between him and his friends, he .A．feels happy, thinking how nice his friends are to himB．feels he might not have understood his friend’s true feelingsC．thinks it a mistake to have broken up with his girl friendD．is sorry that his friends let him down小题2:When the writer talks about the saying, “You’re a lucky dog!”, he is saying that .A．the speaker is just friendlyB．this sentence suggests the same as “You’re a lucky guy!”C．the word “dog” should not be used to apply to（运用到） people.D．sometimes the words show that the speaker is a bit envious.小题3:This passage tries to tell you how to . A．avoid mistakes about money and friendsB．get an idea of friendly peopleC．avoid mistakes in understanding what people tell youD．keep people friendly without trusting them小题4:The writer suggests that should be trusted. A．everybody B．nobody C．all the people D．not all the people 题型：未知难度：其他题型
答案
小题1:B
小题2:D
小题3:C
小题4:D
解析
本文叙述了我们可能会在任何时候犯错误。我们有一些关于钱的错误。但是大多数都是关于人与人的误解。有时朋友表达的意思并非是他表面上的意思，而是隐藏在背后的意思。
小题1:细节理解题。根据Did Jerry really care when I broke up(分开) with Helen? When we look back, these thoughts can make us feel bad.他感觉他的朋友不理解他， 故选B。
小题2:细节理解题。根据"You're a lucky dog"不就用来指人了吗？所以，这是个明显错误的答案。 这道题也有很多同学选择B：这句谚语的意思是你是个幸运的家伙。但是第二段特别比较了”you’re a lucky dog “和”You’re a lucky guy”这两句话的区别。后者是衷心祝福，友好的，而前者There's a bit of envy in those words（有一点嫉妒的意味）,所以不能选择B。故选D。
小题3:主旨大意题。根据我们通过略读找到的位于段落开头的三个段落主题句，可以发现答案是C。
小题4:细节理解题。根据并非每一人都应该相信，故选D。
点评：主旨大意题要识别和理解主题句，可迅速准确地抓住短文的中心思想，从而把握住全篇的主要内容。在确定文章的主旨思想时，选项的内容既不能太具体也不能太笼统。
考点
据考高分专家说，试题“We can make mistakes.....”主要考查你对 [人生感悟类阅读 ]考点的理解。人生感悟类阅读
人生感悟类阅读的概念：
生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。
生活感悟类阅读解题指导：
一、文章特点：
生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。有时故事的结尾会有一句“点睛之笔”，点出全文的中心思想，就像《伊索寓言》里的寓言一样。还可能是夹叙夹议的哲理散文或生活随笔。散文随笔通常会阐述一种朴素易懂，耳熟能详的人生道理或宝贵品质。文章的结构和议论文类似，一般是总分总或总分结构。每段首句或尾句为主题句（论点），其它句子围绕主题展开论述（论据），论证方法多种多样，或举例，或引用名言，或正反对照等。
二、解题技巧：
针对生活感悟类文章的特点，做这类文章的完形填空时，要特别注意以下几点：
1、重点理解全文的首句。如果是记叙文，找出when，where，who，what等基本要素。如果是散文随笔，充分理解文章的中心句—全文的主题。
2、阅读全文的结尾段或结尾句，有助于理解文章所阐述或蕴含的哲理、感悟或忠告等。
3、调动自己的背景知识和情感。这类文章不会讲大道理也不会涉及到一些很专业的知识技术领域，而是谈一些小事和简单的道理，所以如果读者能和作者产生感情上的共鸣，读者会更好地把握作者的意图态度，从而提高做题的准确度。因此，考生在平时要做一个有心人，即用心去感悟生活中发生的小事，思考人生的一些基本道理，多阅读一些短小精悍的美文，多写写自己的心情故事和对生活学习的感悟。只有平时多用心，做题时才能调动自己的背景知识和情感。
