题文
When I was 15, I had an enemy, a girl who liked to point out my short-comings(缺点). Week by week her list grew. I was skinny(瘦的), I talked too loud, I was too proud, and so on. I put up with(忍受)her as long as I could. At last, I ran to my father in tears and anger. He listened to my outburst quietly. They he asked, “Are the things she says the true or not?”True? I wanted to know how to strike back. What did truth have to do with it?“Mary, didn’t you ever wonder what you are really like? Well, you now have that girl’s opinion. ”Go and make a list of every thing she said and mark the points that are true. You needn’t pay attention to the other things she said.
I did as he told me and discovered to my surprise that about half the things are true. Some of them I couldn’t change(like being skinny), but a good number I could and suddenly wanted to change. For the time in my life I began to get a quiet clear picture of myself.
I brought the list back to Daddy, but he wouldn’t take it.“That’s just for you,”he said.“You know better than any else the truth about yourself, once you hear it. But you’ve got to learn to listen, not close your ears in anger or hurt. When someone says something about you, you’ll know if it’s true or not. If it is ,you’ll find it will echo(共鸣)inside you.”
“I still don’t think it very nice of her to talk about me in front of everybody.”
“Mary, there is one way you could stop others talking about you ever again, and criticizing(批评) you—just say nothing and do nothing. But then, if you do that, you’d find you were nothing. You wouldn’t like that now, would you?”“No, I admitted(承认)”
小题1:One day the writer ran to her father in tears and anger because__________.A．she found she talked too much.B．she found she was too proud.C．her classmates were not friendly to her. D．a girl pointed out many of her shortcomings.小题2:The writer’s father asked her ____________.A．to pay attention to all that her“enemy”said about her.B．not to pay attention to what her“enemy”said about her.C．to pay attention only to the points that were true about her.D．to pay attention only to the points that were not true about her.小题3:The writer found that___________.A．about half the things her“enemy”said were true.B．most of the things her“enemy”said were true.C．few of the things her“enemy”said were true.D．none of the things her“enemy”said were true.小题4:The writer’s father thinks__________.A．if one says nothing and does nothing, people will praise him.B．one should not do anything because others will talk about him.C．it is not good to talk about others.D．everyone is talked about by others. 题型：未知难度：其他题型
答案
小题1:D
小题2:C
小题3:A
小题4:D
解析
本文中介绍了在我十二岁那年，班里有一个女孩总是指出我的缺点，我很难过，跑去向父亲诉苦，父亲告诉我要正确地认识自己，不要闭目塞听，别人说的如果是正确的，那么就要勇于改正。
小题1:细节题：从第一段的句子：When I was 15, I had an enemy, a girl who liked to point out my short-comings(缺点). 可知是有女孩指出他的错误，答案是D
小题2:根据 Go and make a list of everything she said and mark the points that are true.。故选C。
小题3:细节题：根据第三段的句子I did as he told me and discovered to my surprise that about half the things are true.结合全文内容，故选A。
小题4:根据最后一段的句子：Mary, there is one way you could stop others talking about you ever again, and criticizing(批评) you—，可知每个人都被别人谈论，故选B。
点评：这篇阅读理解集中考查了细节题，要求考生仔细阅读全文，做好相应的标志，以提高阅读的效率和速度，做题时要审清题干，发觉和把握试题中有效的提示性信息，确认命题的角度、阅读范围和答题方式。
考点
据考高分专家说，试题“When I was 15, I had.....”主要考查你对 [人生感悟类阅读 ]考点的理解。人生感悟类阅读
人生感悟类阅读的概念：
生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。
生活感悟类阅读解题指导：
一、文章特点：
生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。有时故事的结尾会有一句“点睛之笔”，点出全文的中心思想，就像《伊索寓言》里的寓言一样。还可能是夹叙夹议的哲理散文或生活随笔。散文随笔通常会阐述一种朴素易懂，耳熟能详的人生道理或宝贵品质。文章的结构和议论文类似，一般是总分总或总分结构。每段首句或尾句为主题句（论点），其它句子围绕主题展开论述（论据），论证方法多种多样，或举例，或引用名言，或正反对照等。
二、解题技巧：
针对生活感悟类文章的特点，做这类文章的完形填空时，要特别注意以下几点：
1、重点理解全文的首句。如果是记叙文，找出when，where，who，what等基本要素。如果是散文随笔，充分理解文章的中心句—全文的主题。
2、阅读全文的结尾段或结尾句，有助于理解文章所阐述或蕴含的哲理、感悟或忠告等。
3、调动自己的背景知识和情感。这类文章不会讲大道理也不会涉及到一些很专业的知识技术领域，而是谈一些小事和简单的道理，所以如果读者能和作者产生感情上的共鸣，读者会更好地把握作者的意图态度，从而提高做题的准确度。因此，考生在平时要做一个有心人，即用心去感悟生活中发生的小事，思考人生的一些基本道理，多阅读一些短小精悍的美文，多写写自己的心情故事和对生活学习的感悟。只有平时多用心，做题时才能调动自己的背景知识和情感。
