题文
When asked to point out one or two things that are most important to themselves, many put friends ahead of homes, jobs, cloth and cars.A true friendship carries-a-long history of experience that determines who we are and keeps us connected. It is a treasure we should protect. Unfortunately, the better friends you are, the more probably you’ll have disagreements. And the result can be what you don’t want an end to the relationship.
The good news is that most troubled friendships can be mended First, don’t let your pride get in your way. Most of us can forgive each other when differences are brought out in the open . second, apologize when you’re wrong – even if you’ve been wronged. Over the course of a friendship, even the best people make mistakes. Sometimes, it may be best if the wronged person takes the lead and apologizes. When you apologize, give your friend a chance to admit that he has been wrong. Third, see things from your friend’s point of view. And finally, accept that friendships change as our needs and lifestyle change. Making friends can sometimes seem easy. The hard part is keeping the connections strong during the natural ups and downs that have an effect on all relationships . My suggestion: Consider friendship an honor and a gift , and worth the effort to treasure and nurture .
小题1:What would be the best title for the text?A．Easy Ways to Make FriendsB．Ups and Downs in FriendshipC．How to Mend a Troubled FriendshipD．How to Take the Lead in Making Friends小题2:The “wronged person” underlined in the text refers to a person .A．who has been mistaken for anotherB．who has been blamed unfairlyC．who has treated friends badlyD．who has admitted his mistakes小题3:According to the text a friendship can last long only if ．A．we have much in commonB．we know our friends’ mistakesC．we treat our disagreements wiselyD．we have know one another for long小题4:What should we do if we follow the author’s second suggestion?A．Stick to our own prints of viewB．Avoid making mistakesC．Make an apology firstD．Change our lifestyles 题型：未知难度：其他题型
答案
小题1:C
小题2:B
小题3:C
小题4:C
解析
本文主要讲述友谊越深厚，就越可能有分歧，如何去挽救处于崩溃边缘的友谊，
小题1:主旨题：本文主要讲述如何去挽救处于崩溃边缘的友谊，故 C 项为正确选项。
小题2:猜词题：根据划线部分的下一句“When you apologize, give your friend a chance to admit that he has been wrong.”可知你道歉的时候，会给对方一个机会去承认自己的错误，由此可知，先道歉的这个人并不是犯错的人，应该是被冤枉的人，因此 B 项为正确选项。
小题3:细节题：根据第三段第三句“Most of us can forgive each other when differences are brought out in the open.”可知如果大家能把分歧坦白地讲出来，还是能够互相原谅，挽救这段友谊的，故 C 项为正确选项
小题4:细节题：根据第三段的第四及第六句“Second, apologize when you're wrong...takes the lead and apologizes.”可知我们应学会首先道歉，故 C 项为正确选项
点评：这篇阅读理解集中考查了细节理解题，要求考生仔细阅读全文，做好相应的标志，以提高阅读的效率和速度，做题时要审清题干，发觉和把握试题中有效的提示性信息，确认命题的角度、阅读范围和答题方式。
考点
据考高分专家说，试题“When asked to point .....”主要考查你对 [人生感悟类阅读 ]考点的理解。人生感悟类阅读
人生感悟类阅读的概念：
生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。
生活感悟类阅读解题指导：
一、文章特点：
生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。有时故事的结尾会有一句“点睛之笔”，点出全文的中心思想，就像《伊索寓言》里的寓言一样。还可能是夹叙夹议的哲理散文或生活随笔。散文随笔通常会阐述一种朴素易懂，耳熟能详的人生道理或宝贵品质。文章的结构和议论文类似，一般是总分总或总分结构。每段首句或尾句为主题句（论点），其它句子围绕主题展开论述（论据），论证方法多种多样，或举例，或引用名言，或正反对照等。
二、解题技巧：
针对生活感悟类文章的特点，做这类文章的完形填空时，要特别注意以下几点：
1、重点理解全文的首句。如果是记叙文，找出when，where，who，what等基本要素。如果是散文随笔，充分理解文章的中心句—全文的主题。
2、阅读全文的结尾段或结尾句，有助于理解文章所阐述或蕴含的哲理、感悟或忠告等。
3、调动自己的背景知识和情感。这类文章不会讲大道理也不会涉及到一些很专业的知识技术领域，而是谈一些小事和简单的道理，所以如果读者能和作者产生感情上的共鸣，读者会更好地把握作者的意图态度，从而提高做题的准确度。因此，考生在平时要做一个有心人，即用心去感悟生活中发生的小事，思考人生的一些基本道理，多阅读一些短小精悍的美文，多写写自己的心情故事和对生活学习的感悟。只有平时多用心，做题时才能调动自己的背景知识和情感。
