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If someone seems to dislike you, the reason for that dislike might have little or nothing to do with you. The person who doesn’t like you might be fearful, or shallow or busy or shy. Perhaps you and that person are simply a mismatch for each other at this particular time.
Don’t take yourself out of the game by deciding that your flaws are bigger than your good qualities. In fact, some of the very qualities you consider to be flaws may be irresistible to someone else. Although some factors that might cause one person to reject you, there are at least many factors that will work in your favor.
You might be thirty pounds over your ideal weight, but you may have a wonderful laugh and a real enthusiasm for life. There are many people who don’t mind your extra pounds. You may drive a shabby car, but you might be a great dancer and a loyal friend. There are people out there looking for loyalty, or fun, or sweetness, or wisdom, and the package it comes in is not important. If you are worried that you are not beautiful enough to attract friends, keep in mind that not everyone is looking for physical beauty in their friends. You can decide to feel inferior because you don’t have much money and you don’t drive a nice car. You can believe that this is the reason
that you don’t have many friends in your life. On the other hand, if you are very wealthy you may be suspicious that everyone is after your money and that nobody really likes you as a person.
The point is that you can focus on just about anything and believe it’s the reason you do not have friends and cannot make any.
小题1:According to the passage, plays an important role in making friends.A．admitting your shortcomingsB．self criticismC．modestyD．confidence小题2:If you are not liked by a person, .A．you should find the reason in yourselfB．you’d better talk with the person face to faceC．you may not be the one to be blamedD．you and that person misunderstand each other小题3:We can learn from the third paragraph that .A．your good qualities may make you earn more moneyB．your weakness may also be your strengths in some wayC．your negative qualities may cause you to lose friendsD．you’ll have few friends if you don’t share the same interest小题4: Which of the following is TRUE according to the author?A．It is important to lose weight.B．It is easier for a wealthy person to make friends.C．Inner qualities are more important than physical appearance.D．If you are not beautiful enough, try to improve your physical beauty.小题5:What do you think the author is most likely to suggest if he continues to write?A．How to find your good qualities.B．How to make friends.C．How to make self criticism.D．How to keep fit. 题型：未知难度：其他题型 答案
【小题1】D【小题2】C【小题3】B【小题4】C【小题5】A解析
本文叙述了人们也许花费很多的时间去怪罪自己的性格不好，其实你的弱点也有可能是你自己的长处，要想广交朋友必须要对自己有自信心。【小题1】细节理解题。根据However, a constant focus on our supposed shortcomings can stop our efforts to make friends with other people.可以要有自信才能广交朋友，故选D。【小题2】细节理解题。根据If someone seems to dislike you, the reason for that dislike might have little or nothing to do with you.一个人不喜欢你可能与你无关，故选C。【小题3】细节理解题。根据In fact, some of the very qualities you consider to be flaws may be irresistible to someone else. 你的弱点也许是你的强项，故选B。【小题4】细节理解题。根据If you are worried that you are not beautiful enough to attract friends, keep in mind that not everyone is looking for physical beauty in their friends. 内在素质比外在外表更重要的，故选C。【小题5】推理判断题。根据The point is that you can focus on just about anything and believe it’s the reason you do not have friends and cannot make any.可推知不要只看到自己的不足，还应找到自己的好的品质，那么如何找到自己好的品质，就是下文要叙述的内容，故选A。考点： 考点
据考高分专家说，试题“Many of us mistakenl.....”主要考查你对 [人生感悟类阅读 ]考点的理解。人生感悟类阅读
人生感悟类阅读的概念：
生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。
生活感悟类阅读解题指导：
一、文章特点：
生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。有时故事的结尾会有一句“点睛之笔”，点出全文的中心思想，就像《伊索寓言》里的寓言一样。还可能是夹叙夹议的哲理散文或生活随笔。散文随笔通常会阐述一种朴素易懂，耳熟能详的人生道理或宝贵品质。文章的结构和议论文类似，一般是总分总或总分结构。每段首句或尾句为主题句（论点），其它句子围绕主题展开论述（论据），论证方法多种多样，或举例，或引用名言，或正反对照等。
二、解题技巧：
针对生活感悟类文章的特点，做这类文章的完形填空时，要特别注意以下几点：
1、重点理解全文的首句。如果是记叙文，找出when，where，who，what等基本要素。如果是散文随笔，充分理解文章的中心句—全文的主题。
2、阅读全文的结尾段或结尾句，有助于理解文章所阐述或蕴含的哲理、感悟或忠告等。
3、调动自己的背景知识和情感。这类文章不会讲大道理也不会涉及到一些很专业的知识技术领域，而是谈一些小事和简单的道理，所以如果读者能和作者产生感情上的共鸣，读者会更好地把握作者的意图态度，从而提高做题的准确度。因此，考生在平时要做一个有心人，即用心去感悟生活中发生的小事，思考人生的一些基本道理，多阅读一些短小精悍的美文，多写写自己的心情故事和对生活学习的感悟。只有平时多用心，做题时才能调动自己的背景知识和情感。
