题文
When asked to point out one or two things that are most important to themselves, many put friends ahead of homes, jobs, clothes and cars.A true friendship carries a long history of experience that determines who we are and keeps us connected. It is a treasure we should protect. Unfortunately, the better friends you are, the more probably you’ll have disagreements. And the result can be what you don’t want ---an end to the relationship.
The good news is that most troubled friendships can be mended. First, don’t let your pride get in your way. Most of us can forgive each other when differences are brought out in the open. Second, apologize when your’re wrong---even if you’ve been wronged. Over the course of a friendship, even the best people make mistakes. Sometimes, it may be best if the wronged person takes the lead and apologizes. When you apologize, give your friend a chance to admit that he has been wrong also. Third, see things from your friend’s point of view. And finally, accept that friendships change as our needs and lifestyle change. Making friends can sometimes seem easy. The hard part is keeping the connections strong during the natural ups and downs that have an effect on all relationships. My suggestion: consider friendship an honour and a gift, and worth the effort to treasure and nurture.
小题1:What is likely to happen if you have disagreements with your friends?A．An end to the friendships.B．Getting experience for the later life.C．Quarrelling with each other.D．Sitting down and have a talk.小题2:The author wrote the article mainly to tell us ________.A．how to make friendsB．the benefits of making friendsC．what is a true friendshipD．how to mend a troubled friendship小题3:The underlined word “nurture” probably means ________.A．mendB．developC．keepD．accept小题4:What causes the change of friendships?A．Our characters.B．Our hobbies.C．Our living habits.D．Our needs and lifestyle.小题5:Which of the following is True according to the passage?A．A true friend can never have a disagreement with each other.B．Most troubled friendships can be mended.C．You don’t need to apologize when you know you are wronged.D．Friends are more important than jobs, homes and cars. 题型：未知难度：其他题型
答案
小题1:A
小题2:D
小题3:B
小题4:D
小题5:B
解析
文章介绍友谊的重要性，也说明友谊是很容易破碎的，但是也可以修复，作者介绍了几个修复友谊的方式。
小题1:细节题：从第二段的句子：. And the result can be what you don’t want ---an end to the relationship.可知朋友间有了分歧，有可能结束友谊，选A
小题2:主旨题：从第三段的句子：The good news is that most troubled friendships can be mended. 可知作者写这篇文章是想告诉我们怎么修复友谊，选D
小题3:猜词题：单词出现在最后一句话：My suggestion: consider friendship an honour and a gift, and worth the effort to treasure and nurture.把友谊当成是荣誉，珠宝，值得努力去珍惜培养，选B
小题4:细节题：从第三段的句子：accept that friendships change as our needs and lifestyle change.可知随着需求的变化和生活方式的改变，友谊是会改变的，选 D
小题5:细节题：从第三段的句子：The good news is that most troubled friendships can be mended. 可知最麻烦的友谊也能修复，选B
考点
据考高分专家说，试题“When asked to point .....”主要考查你对 [人生感悟类阅读 ]考点的理解。人生感悟类阅读
人生感悟类阅读的概念：
生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。
生活感悟类阅读解题指导：
一、文章特点：
生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。有时故事的结尾会有一句“点睛之笔”，点出全文的中心思想，就像《伊索寓言》里的寓言一样。还可能是夹叙夹议的哲理散文或生活随笔。散文随笔通常会阐述一种朴素易懂，耳熟能详的人生道理或宝贵品质。文章的结构和议论文类似，一般是总分总或总分结构。每段首句或尾句为主题句（论点），其它句子围绕主题展开论述（论据），论证方法多种多样，或举例，或引用名言，或正反对照等。
二、解题技巧：
针对生活感悟类文章的特点，做这类文章的完形填空时，要特别注意以下几点：
1、重点理解全文的首句。如果是记叙文，找出when，where，who，what等基本要素。如果是散文随笔，充分理解文章的中心句—全文的主题。
2、阅读全文的结尾段或结尾句，有助于理解文章所阐述或蕴含的哲理、感悟或忠告等。
3、调动自己的背景知识和情感。这类文章不会讲大道理也不会涉及到一些很专业的知识技术领域，而是谈一些小事和简单的道理，所以如果读者能和作者产生感情上的共鸣，读者会更好地把握作者的意图态度，从而提高做题的准确度。因此，考生在平时要做一个有心人，即用心去感悟生活中发生的小事，思考人生的一些基本道理，多阅读一些短小精悍的美文，多写写自己的心情故事和对生活学习的感悟。只有平时多用心，做题时才能调动自己的背景知识和情感。
