题文
Many people tend to complain about not having good friends in their lives. Sadly， they seem to think that their own company is not enough to make them happy. Nothing could be further from the truth though. In order to get along with others， the first thing you need to do is learn to get along with yourself. only in this way will you succeed in developing healthy， solid relationships with others.Listen to your inner voice. Remember that inner voice that keeps whispering to you what you really want and need as well as what you do not really want and need. It is about time you started listening to it. In order to get to know yourself in depth， it is important to learn and accept what you want and what you do not want.
Learn to enjoy your own company. You will be surprised to find out how many things you can do by yourself and actually have fun in the process. Reading romantic novels， poetry or science fiction is only a few of the things that you can do by yourself， which not only can offer you hours of enjoyment， but also the chance to get to know yourself better.
Satisfy yourself. Pay special attention to your personal hygiene(卫生). Do your hair and nails often and experiment with new styles. Follow a healthy diet and exercise regularly to stay in good shape. No matter how busy your daily schedule is， always find at least an hour per day for yourself， when you can either relax doing absolutely nothing， or doing something that you enjoy.
Learn to respect your own boundaries. Find out what your boundaries are and learn to respect them. You are the only one who knows what you can and what you cannot accept；no one else can point that out to you， or force you to compromise(妥协).
小题1:If you want to have a good relationship with others， you should first .A．get into the habit of living aloneB．make many friends in societyC．always tell the truthD．learn to be your own best friend小题2:What is the purpose of listening to your inner voice？A．To keep a good state of mind.B．To know more about yourself.C．To enjoy the time by yourself.D．To form a relationship with others.小题3:In order to please yourself， the writer gives some suggestions EXCEPT .A．eating healthily B．exercise regularly C．experimenting with new hair styleD．keeping on struggling小题4:The underlined word “boundaries” nearly means “ ”.A．weaknessesB．aimsC．ambitionsD．limits小题5: What is the structure of the passage？
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答案
小题1:D
小题2:B
小题3:D
小题4:D
小题5:A
解析
大家有没有试着自己一个人相处？我们不妨尝试着倾听自己内心的声音，学会跟自己相处，满足自己，保持自己的底线。
小题1:细节理解题。根据第一段“...the first thing you need to do is learn to get along with yourself” 可知如果你想和别人相处好首先要和自己成为好朋友，答案为D
小题2:细节理解题。根据第二段“Remember that inner voice...what you do not really want and need” 可知听内心的声音是为了更好的了解你自己，答案为B
小题3:细节理解题。根据第四段Do your hair and nails often and experiment with new styles. Follow a healthy diet and exercise regularly to stay in good shape.可知为了让自己高兴，作者建议要用新发型做实验，吃得健康，定期锻炼，没有说压迫一直努力，选 D
小题4:猜词题：从最后一段的句子：You are the only one who knows what you can and what you cannot accept；可知“boundaries”是你能做的和不能做的，就是你的局限：limits，答案为D。
小题5:文章结构题：文章第一段提出观点：如果你想和别人相处好首先要和自己成为好朋友，后面的四段都是作者给出的建议：怎么做自己的朋友，所以选A
考点
据考高分专家说，试题“Many people tend to .....”主要考查你对 [人生感悟类阅读 ]考点的理解。人生感悟类阅读
人生感悟类阅读的概念：
生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。
生活感悟类阅读解题指导：
一、文章特点：
生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。有时故事的结尾会有一句“点睛之笔”，点出全文的中心思想，就像《伊索寓言》里的寓言一样。还可能是夹叙夹议的哲理散文或生活随笔。散文随笔通常会阐述一种朴素易懂，耳熟能详的人生道理或宝贵品质。文章的结构和议论文类似，一般是总分总或总分结构。每段首句或尾句为主题句（论点），其它句子围绕主题展开论述（论据），论证方法多种多样，或举例，或引用名言，或正反对照等。
二、解题技巧：
针对生活感悟类文章的特点，做这类文章的完形填空时，要特别注意以下几点：
1、重点理解全文的首句。如果是记叙文，找出when，where，who，what等基本要素。如果是散文随笔，充分理解文章的中心句—全文的主题。
2、阅读全文的结尾段或结尾句，有助于理解文章所阐述或蕴含的哲理、感悟或忠告等。
3、调动自己的背景知识和情感。这类文章不会讲大道理也不会涉及到一些很专业的知识技术领域，而是谈一些小事和简单的道理，所以如果读者能和作者产生感情上的共鸣，读者会更好地把握作者的意图态度，从而提高做题的准确度。因此，考生在平时要做一个有心人，即用心去感悟生活中发生的小事，思考人生的一些基本道理，多阅读一些短小精悍的美文，多写写自己的心情故事和对生活学习的感悟。只有平时多用心，做题时才能调动自己的背景知识和情感。
